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My Father’s House

Sunday, May 10th, 2020

5th Sunday of Easter

Acts 6: 1-7; 1 Pet 2: 4-9; Jn 14: 1-12

Deacon Larry Brockman

So, “In my Father’s house there are many dwelling places.”  Such are Jesus’ words to Thomas this morning.   

And I think that is very comforting to know.  Because it implies diversity in Heaven; it implies that these dwelling places are somehow different, yet each is just as desirable as the next.  Jesus basically tells us that each dwelling place is tailored for the individual; and that if we follow his teaching in this life, then He will come and get us and lead us to our particular place.  How wonderful is that!   

And that kind of gives context to what we do here in this life because all of us are called to do God’s will in this life.  But God’s will is very different for each one of us.  Jesus tells Thomas, that He is “the way, the truth, and the life”.  And indeed, Jesus accepted the Father’s will for Him, and deferred in obedience, accepting death, even death on a cross. 

But now, he is in a special place in Heaven by the Father’s side.   

This morning’s first reading is all about the call of the first Deacons.  The Presbyters needed to concern themselves with the Word and teaching.  They didn’t want that calling to be diluted by having to deal with  some of the more pragmatic tasks in the first Christian communities, such as the distribution of the meals.  So, they chose seven men to be Deacons to do that.   

But notice that they chose men “filled with the spirit and wisdom”.  They didn’t just choose people who were good at being waiters.  They needed such people because they were concerned with the equitable distribution amongst both the Jews and the Gentiles, the mixed congregation of Christians.  These Deacons were charged with making sure that the practical details were met,,and met with fairness.   

What I am suggesting is that such vocations are life-long learning experiences.  When we accept them, we do God’s will and give up our own personal goals in deference to God’s goals.  That vocation may transcend our lives in this world, and somehow help us in our unique places in the next.   

And so, if there is a unique calling for us in this life, and there is a unique place for us in the next life; then there must somehow be a connection between the two.  We don’t live this life for 30, 50, or even 80 years or more without there being some correlation between our learning and our experiences here in this world, with life in the next world.   

This means that the place we will given in the Heavenly Kingdom somehow completes a journey where we finally reconcile diversity and harmony; happiness and engagement; talent and exercise of it; worship of God and rest.   

These concepts are covered in a different way in the second reading which talks about Christ being the cornerstone of a living abode.  Indeed, Christ is the cornerstone of the foundation of the Church; and all of us are “living stones” which have a particular place and function in that abode.  But all together, we constitute one body, the Church, working in harmony and tightly bound together.   

Today is Mother’s Day.  What better example is there for how to fulfill the will of God in a vocation, and benefit from the experience?  Mothers love, nurture, teach, encourage, advise, and then eventually let go of their children.  They are the first teachers, along with their Dads, of the Faith that their children have.  And they provide context for life, the development of a healthy conscience, and so much more for their children.  

Like all true vocations that we are called to, they have to empty themselves and defer to others in the process.  And that is something that all good mothers certainly do.  Ideally, they don’t do it alone, but with the mutual love and support of their husbands.  But their children are of primary importance to them.  They do for their children in deference to themselves over and over again, giving up things often so their children can have instead.   

They do the wash, they cook the meals, they mend, they fuss over every hurt, they comfort, they encourage, they chastise, they correct, they defend; and they take great pride in the people that their children become.  But then, they have to let go, as their children leave home, and make their own families and lives.   

There is a special place in Heaven for Mothers who do this well; that’s one of those places that Jesus was talking about.   

Today, as we celebrate Mothers Day, let us remember all who have had this vocation in our families- our living mothers, and those mothers, grandmothers, and great grandmothers who have found that special place that Jesus has led them to in His Heavenly Kingdom. 

A Mother’s Kind of Love

Sunday, May 13th, 2012

Sixth Sunday of Easter

Acts 10: 25-26, 34-35, 44-48; 1 John 4: 7-10; John 15: 9-17

By Deacon Larry Brockman

 

How many of you would lay down your life for your friends?  And yet, that is what we are being called to do by Jesus.  That’s the kind of love we are being asked to show.

   

Several years ago, I presided at a funeral for a lady.  She had come over here from England and was running her own business with her husband when she came down with cancer.  Her husband told me a very interesting story about her.  He told me about the special relationship she had with her one and only son.  It seems that when they first got married, she really wanted to have children.  But the doctors told her that because of a medical condition she had, she could not carry a baby to birth without severe risk of death.  A couple of years later, she became pregnant, and the same doctors told her that she had to abort her child or die.  She just couldn’t do that.  She had always wanted a baby with all her heart, and she had fallen in love with the unborn child.  And so, she carried that baby through till birth and suffered through a very, very difficult pregnancy.  The doctors were constantly advising her to abort her child or die.  But she was willing to sacrifice her own life for her child.  That, brothers and sisters, is the kind of love that Jesus is talking about.  It’s the kind of love that is unselfish; love that is a commitment to a higher purpose.  And it is no secret, it is the kind of love that Mothers have for their children.   

Today, we celebrate Mother’s Day, and rightfully recognize the love that our Mother’s have for us.  It is the kind of love that gets Mom’s up at all hours to feed and change their babies; the kind of love that sacrifices career and personal goals so that a child is taken care of; and it is the kind of love that sacrifices our own wants and needs so that our children will have the very best.  And so, we honor all our mothers today for the unselfish love they have given us.

   

But let me go back for a moment and ask this question:  How can we love God all the time like Moms love their children?  We can understand a Mom’s love for her child, and we can understand how God loves us like that- giving up His own son Jesus for us.  But how can we love God like that? 

  

First, we have to listen to God.  We have to hear what he wants of us.  A mother knows how to listen to her child.  She is in tune with the words, the body language, and the overall status of her child at all times.  We need to do the same thing with God.  God wants the very best for us but we must listen to him.  He talks to us through the ordinary events of life: our prayers, the pangs of our conscience, and the opportunities that present themselves in the events of our lives.  Because of the Christ that is in all the people around us, God is relating to us all the time.  Yes, the people around us are calling out to us as Christ for our love and help.  And so, when we show kindness to others, we are loving God.

   

And finally we need to lay down our life for God  We do that whenever we make sacrifices for others- like a mother that puts her day out with the friends on the back burner when her child needs help.

   

Now even though the love of God is unconditional, and we are being asked to love the same way, there is another side to love that we should talk about.  Because as much as God loves us; and as much as we love our children; there is always the possibility that this love will be rejected.  Sometimes our children reject our love.  And sometimes we reject God’s love for us.  There is something we need to learn from that.  First, that we have to keep right on loving whether the love is returned or not.  That’s what God does for us.  Now there are many Moms out there who feel a great sense of loss because the love they have for their children has been rejected or forgotten.  But they continue to love their children.  So secondly, we need to forgive those who love us, and return that love.  That is the real love of God at work.  God loves all of us that way. 

  

Now, when it comes to the Church, we often use the term Holy Mother the Church.  Why? Because the Church acts in our interest like a mother.   The Church has a responsibility to always tell us the truth- God’s truth, just like we tell our children the truth.  As children, sometimes we listen; and sometimes we don’t.  But no matter what we have done, no matter how we may have rejected her in the past, the Church is always there to welcome us back; and she is constantly nurturing our needs.  She does that with the Sacraments and with Church Teachings.  She teaches us how to live like Jesus and love.

   

For some time now, the Church in this country has been caring for the people of God in a free and open environment.  So, the Church operates schools and hospitals and adoption agencies and services for the poor.  She provides those services to one and all; but only in so far as they are provided consistent with Church teachings.  This is what we would expect from a good mother- that everything she does be done with the best of intentions. 

  

As it turns out, Holy Mother the Church needs us now because She is being attacked.  Secular society and the Government are telling Holy Mother the Church what She must do through the HHS Mandate.  They are telling the church that she has no right to help others outside our faith unless she is willing to compromise Her own beliefs.  This is something the Church cannot, and will not do.  The Church will close up all her services before that happens. 

  

Jesus says that the way you will know if He remains in you is if you keep His commandments.  The Church knows that, and for that reason will not compromise on the commandments.  All of us need to keep God’s commandment as well, to love God, and our neighbor as ourselves and to follow what the Church teaches.  We also need to support our mothers.  Those who have loved us unconditionally, loved us as they love life itself.

   

In this time of need, we need to be there for Holy Mother the Church as well.  We need to love the Church, the body of Christ with our actions and words and hearts; loving Her as we love our own lives.