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Appearances Can Be Deceiving

Sunday, October 1st, 2017

26th Sunday in Ordinary Time
Ezekiel 18: 25-28; Phil 2: 1-5; Mt 21: 28-32
Dc. Larry Brockman

Appearances can be deceiving. What seems to be mild mannered and agreeable to us, may in fact be evil.

Both our Old Testament Scripture and our Gospel today talk about this kind of evil. Both of these scriptures also address those who have a true conversion- a conversion of heart which their actions attest to, for actions speak louder than words.

First, there was the son in the Gospel who says “yes”, but ignores the father’s command. The fact is that there are many ways a person exhibits this kind of behavior. The first and foremost way people fulfil this behavior is complacency. They “talk” a good story, but when it comes right down to it, there is no action behind all the talk. I used to have a boss who talked about these kinds of people. He told me to beware of people who offered to “hepp” me. When I looked puzzled at this response, he went on to define “hepp” as all the help you can get short of actual help. I am sure you have all run into these kinds of people as well. Their “help” consists of constructive criticism, advice on how to do something properly, and half-hearted encouragement; but they never actually lend a hand. It’s as if they distance themselves from real help because they just don’t want to put themselves out.

This is an example of a special kind of evil person; a person who talks a good story, but has absolutely no intention of disturbing his own comfort to do something to help. This includes those who are complacent and unwilling to step up to a moral challenge, those who ignore others need for help, or those who refuse to face a difficult situation. They are folks who don’t see a need to change because they are too comfortable with the status quo. Such was the first son in the Gospel. Such were the Pharisees and scribes who considered themselves better than the common folk.

Then there was the second son, who said no at first, but then did as the father commanded. This is like the great majority of us- people who are sinners and are in some way challenged to face their sins. They may feel conscience pangs, have heard a great preacher; read the Gospel; or experienced any of a number of other ways of confronting their imperfections. They resolve to change; they resolve to bring themselves in harmony with God. These are the people that Jesus talks about in the parable- the Publicans and the prostitutes. They are the people who heard John the Baptist’s preaching, a preaching which addressed “righteousness”, which is bringing one into conformity with God and his plan. These sinners were moved by John’s words and responded to them by changing their way of life. Another way to say that is that they repented- changed their behavior.

The Pharisees, on the other hand, couldn’t get beyond the literal interpretation of the Mosaic laws and rituals. To them, compliance with a strict dietary law was more important that coming to someone’s aid on the Sabbath. They couldn’t see what “righteousness” really was all about even when they saw it first hand from John the Baptist. Righteousness is summed up in the two great commandments to Love God and neighbor. To do that we have to first repent, that is change our behavior, and then to act, not just to say the right thing.

In the second reading, St. Paul challenges the Philippians to be of one mind. He advises humility and self-deference in order to achieve that harmony. This is how we can receive the consolation of Christ that he speaks about. That’s because the harmony of the body of Christ, which is all of us, is the ultimate consolation offered by God. It is our destiny to live in that harmony in the Kingdom of God. Those who act “righteously” by challenging themselves to recognize their sins, repent from them, and act according to their new-found faith will be saved. Those who are comfortable with their own situation, don’t see a need to change, and pay lip service to their challenges are only kidding themselves. Because they are wolves in sheep’s clothing.

Appearances can in fact be deceiving.

Dealing With Reality, Not Appearances

Thursday, September 20th, 2012

Thursday of the 24th Week in Ordinary Time

1 Cor 15: 1-11; Luke 7: 36-50

By Deacon Larry Brockman

 

Appearances can be deceiving- like in today’s Gospel.  First, there is the respected man of God- the Pharisee; and then there is the sinful woman.  Jesus praises the sinful woman, and pretty much blasts the respected man of God.  Why? Because of what is in their hearts and how that plays out in their lives.

   

The Pharisee is comfortable with himself and his position.  He has learned all the rules and is following them.  He thinks he has it made right where he is.  The sinful woman is not comfortable with herself.  She has broken all the rules and knows it.  She realizes something must be done.  Both have heard the message of Jesus.  The Pharisee is seeking validation by association.  It’s like he is saying:  “I will invite this man, the latest crave among the people, to my home; and by association with him, my perfect life will be validated.”  But the sinful woman wants only a chance to be forgiven.  She hears the message of Jesus, believes and repents.  She demonstrates her contrition and faithfulness with actions not words.  On the one hand, we have complacency, comfort and inaction.  On the other hand, we have faith, contrition, and growth.

   

St. Paul echoes the faith and humility of the sinful woman.  He persecuted the Church, and he realized his sin.  But by the grace of God- the grace of God- he saw the light, and became a believer.  And by the grace of God, he said “I am what I am”.  Yes indeed, Paul was the greatest of the evangelists to the Gentiles.  Similarly, by the grace of God- after hearing the message, repenting, and coming to believe, the sinful woman reaches out and does something.    Do we see this contrast today- this contrast between people like the Pharisee who have settled in on a way of life and the sinful woman who realizes that more is required of her?  Because Jesus message applies to us today as well.

 

God is always calling us to change, to conversion.  It is a life-long process.  Our growth as Christians isn’t over when we become confirmed and go out into the secular world to make a living; it doesn’t end when we have children; it doesn’t end when the children grow up; and it doesn’t end when we retire.  Our challenge to recognize our imperfections; repent; and trust in the will of God, to move out and do something that grows us as Christians, is always there till the day we die. 

  

Our humility and willingness to respond to God come from the heart.  They are not always visible from the image we portray.   Indeed, don’t let appearances be deceiving.